Bhubaneswar, July 26 - Ajay Patra is a unique guru. He teaches AIDS victims how to face death.
Patra, 39, plunged into the exercise after he was diagnosed with AIDS and told that he had an uncertain future.
The pain of impending death propelled him to look at life afresh, leading to the birth of a network of men and women in Orissa who help fellow HIV positive and AIDS patients to prepare for their final years.
'Only an affected person can understand another affected person better. Approaching a person with AIDS is easier than approaching a doctor or NGO volunteer. They know the same fate awaits us,' said Patra, head of the Kalinga Network of Positive People.
An engineering graduate, Patra contracted the disease through infected syringe because he was a drug addict in his student days in Chennai. When he learnt he was HIV positive in 2002, he lost hope.
He then read about a Kolkata hospital that provides one year free treatment. After returning from Kolkata, he decided to help other affected people overcome the trauma.
'I know I will have to live with this disease. I decided to help others,' said Patra, who says his family members help him financially now that he does not have a job.
He prompted other victims to go to Kolkata. When some said they did not have money to travel, he arranged monetary help. As word spread, many more people flocked to him.
'Disclosing one's status is a Herculean task, but only after doing that can one go for treatment,' Patra said. 'When people came to know that I am HIV positive and helping affected people, my acceptability as a friend increased. Soon many came forward disclosing they had AIDS.'
Thus was born a network of similar thinking people guiding AIDS victims how to spend their final months and years.
Initially he tied up with voluntary agencies but felt they were driven more by monetary interests.